Taking a break from the Tokyo saga for a year-end recap! Since I felt compelled to do one for the hell that was 2021, I thought 2022 would be more than deserving of some appreciation, for being the year of rejuvenation that it was.
Gotta say that 2022 felt like it contained two distinctly different eras. The great divide started during the reopenings and return to dorscon yellow in May/Jun-ish, so will just use 1H and 2H for simplicity.
Unfortunately, we have to start with 1H which basically felt like an extension of 2021 which was itself an extension of 2020. One neverending covid year. Work-wise, I entered 2022 on some sort of tense standby due to omicron, the newest bully in the playground.
Then in Jan, I lost a grandparent (to old age). I'd never have known it to be real if I didn't experience it myself, but it's possible to be too busy and tired to grieve. Since we were very much still in covid days and the VTL was booked out for weeks, my mission was to get my mum safely to the funeral in Msia and back on the emergency lane (yes, no chance of the rest of us going). It took 3 full days of work, leveraging every email warrior skill at my disposal. The sadness sluiced in only at the end. So now it's suddenly Dec and I was caught by surprise to hear that the death anniversary is coming up. I think grandma should be having fun wherever she is, as she did while she was alive!
By the time we hit the worst CNY ever (omg we actually regressed from 2021: 8 pax --> 5 pax) I was extremely annoyed at the whole covid situation. Looking back, it was partially coz I was so done with "caution" at the time that I decided to leave no regrets and commit to the Seoul trip I'd been wanting to go for. That said, I was aware of how embarrassing it would be for me to catch covid overseas. So again, minion skills came in very handy as I planned the hardest I'd ever planned for a personal trip, covering all rules, requirements and potential untoward scenarios. It was well worth the effort! In those 7 days of freedom, I was the most contented person in the world.
Who knew how much better things would get from there! If you told 1H-me that I'd travel 4 more times in 2H, she would've been incredulous. More on that later but from Jul onwards, I found myself getting very busy xD
I'm an introvert who doesn't usually reject opportunities to hang out. Especially after spending so much of 2021 doing my own thing, it was such a joy to finally meet people in large groups again! My treasured Saturday extended family gatherings were back in full-scale. No more rostering families, welcome back the chatter and being squished shoulder-to-shoulder at the dining table! One of the in-your-face lessons from covid was not to take even the most regular of happy occurrences for granted. This is why, as far as possible, I try not to slot other activities on Sat nights.
Meeting friends was a thing again, from naturally joyous, significant occasions like weddings (without seating restrictions) to the more simple after work hangouts and trying to climb regularly again (sometimes derailed by other plans oops). Whenever I go back to office on extra days, it's more likely due to a meetup in town rather than needing a conducive work environment haha.
Speaking of office, there was also something else that I obviously took for granted previously - being physically in office with colleagues. Having no interaction beyond faceless online meetings is a detriment to working relationships. I know this because of how much I enjoy going in on Mondays to meet people that I was once unsure of how to talk to, when everyone was just a disembodied voice trying to get things done in the long dark of 2021. I feel like I've spent many good times with my team, like when we packed into our small meeting room or trooped together to macs for lunch (and always managed to land space together for 9!) or hung around our desks to chat. Recency effect notwithstanding, I'd list our team lunch from the final week of Dec (both a welcome and a farewell) as one of the happiest times of the year. It's really my great fortune to have my colleagues, especially considering the nature of our work.
And so in 2H, the amount of time I spent with others skyrocketed. But then I still wanted to do my own things hahaha. Just like writing this post in fact... So how? Sleep (very) late lor. So many things I want to play, watch, read and yet there's only so much time after work and hanging out heh. In the end I had no choice but to put in the backseat some of the quiet hobbies and personal projects picked up during covid, like self-learning Korean.
Because, another unexpected time-sink in 2H was the travel xD I was only in SG for the entire month in Sep (wow at myself). After the first Seoul trip in Mar, it went like this - Jul: Seoul (yes, again haha), Aug: Thailand, Oct-Nov: Tokyo, Dec: Manila. Only the Thailand trip was foreseen in 1H. The rest were the result of grabbing opportunities coming right in my direction, i.e. centering trips around overseas concerts. I wouldn't have imagined doing this sort of thing as recently as Apr 2022, but here we are haha. Times and values change!
I fully intended to use my 27 days of 2020+2021 leave well anyway and the only way was to actively clear it throughout the year (or risk burning everything at the end). What better way to do this than to go see the world again once borders started to creak open! But the thing is, travel is more than just the going on the trip. Pre-covid, I'd have been content to fly into a city with a vague idea of visitable areas and wing my way around. Now, I plan in detail. And then when I'm back, I write here in this space, so that I get to go on each holiday at least twice. As a result, I've probably been doing 2-3am nights for about half of 2H xD. I want to write about every trip in 2022 because they were all immensely enjoyable in their own ways, and it will take some time into 2023 to finish it all.
Seems like 2022, especially 2H, was quite the whirlwind haha. It's a good thing I realised early enough how much of a blessing it was to have a coincidence of freedom and funds and wasted no opportunity available to me. So all in all, good days really came along after all (as Mr. Simple promised)! As with last year, I shall end off with a line from a song as I head into what I suspect will be a year of change (ah, except for tonight's online Mayday concert and tomorrow's SMTOWN one xD):
"It's your life, your story, your way" [from the English version of 祝福 by Yoasobi, with lyrics faithfully translated from the original Japanese]
To 2023-me, just a few words: continue to chase dreams, grab opportunities that are yours to take, and don't forget to 知足. Oh and exercise, it'll help in the travels. Happy New Year!
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